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I'm a 33years Black African female, single (4 years now), no kids, 5-6 ft tall, 145 lbs., black hair and chocolate colour.I am self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure. and hard working woman too,I live in the capital city of Ghana - North Kanashie, which is along the coast of Ghana and i just completed my AccountingAnd Finance Course. I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising 2-3 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer games, dancing, and reading, cook and more, and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as wellI believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we Do spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle always lol. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me, or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning.With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 33years old and that you are somewhat Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine.Becuase to me i think age is just a number okay...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.i wsih to know more about you too and with your picture too if you won't mind i will be happy to hear from you soon honey and also tell me more about ur self and what you do for a living i mean a ,i do stay with my uncle, his wife and my cousins only i am single and never married infact i have been in a relationship before but i found out that the guy was cheating on me so i just called it a quit. i will really like my dream man to be my first and last man forever and hope if we may know each other well and see where it ends.

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