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why do people lie, cheat, etc?

because some people are like that. my question would be: do they seem to find you? maybe it's not them, but YOU.

the internet doesn't mean we'll always meet creeps. use your brain here as you would anywhere else in real life. i remember listening to a guy online carrying on about the women he attracted. finally, i suggested he take a look at himself. some guys like seeing themselves as the hero -- to swoop in and change the fishwife into their ideal woman. wake up! i, also, asked what did HE have to attract a quality woman. having a dick and a deep voice doesn't mean a guy is the catch of the day.

i've been had, too, and i blame myself. i remember thinking that as i walked into the shit. so, for all the guys who want to call someone a golddigger, close your wallet and your mouth. YOU put out the cash; if you don't have it to spare, then don't offer it. and ladies? if a guy is riff raff in the beginning, he's gonna be the same in the end (most likely). don't attach yourself to a dud, hoping to change him. guys are not like money for making changes.

let's enjoy ourselves on here, shall we?Cool

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Lookthrumyeyez
Lookthrumyeyez 1471 days agocomment permalink
 
true. Of course coming from a male's perspective not all of us are creeps. most women just think you are if you are browsing the internet for a friend...
 
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oldhead
oldhead 1378 days agocomment permalink
 
Yep, you are correct. Even so, it's not just men, rather some men, who lie, cheat, etc.. So far I've connected with five(5) women from Ghana and everyone of these women were running a scam. Damn shame. Some would have you think that their proverty justified it. but.....
 
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j_fugar
j_fugar 811 days agocomment permalink
 
Seriously, I’m starting to think there are two different schools of personality that lead to cheating. Those who are essentially hedonistic in their actions or those who are basically self-destructive in their actions. It’s a generality but hey…

I know people who cheat habitually because they can’t control their sexual impulses and don’t care how other people might be hurt. Personally, I don’t understand this problem.
 
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anonymous 758 days agocomment permalink
 
Yes ,you are correct...use the brain instead of the dick..and the scammers will not win...Contact me if you wish ,you sound like a smart and wonderful lady...
 
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kbee_55
kbee_55 638 days agocomment permalink
 
hello babe how are you doing today....i'm kabir by my name.i'm a single man of 25 year old i'm from nigeria i wan't you to know that i'm an easy going person with no bad habit,,I DO NOT HIDE MY EMOTIONS AND I ENJOY SHARING MY THOUGHTS AND PLANS WITH MY PARTNER...I TRULY ENJOY BEING PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY CLOSE TO MY MAN AND I ENJOY DOING MANY THINGS. I WOULD WANT TO SHARE WHATEVER PART OF MY LIFE WITH MY MAN THAT SHE DESIRES....
HOWEVER MY WOMAN NEVER HAS TO WORRY ABOUT KNOWING SHE IS THE CENTER OF MY UNIVERSE..I AM VERY PASSIONATE, COMPASSIONATE AND LOVING...I AM ALSO VERY PROFESSIONAL IN MY CARRER AND I WORK HARD..AND I WANT YOUTO KNOW THAT ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFTS GOD GAVE HIS CHILDREN IS ROMANCE AND INTIMACY WITHIN A RELATIONSHIP. THEY SERVE TO PROVIDE THE FUEL FOR IGNITING THE SPARK THAT DRAWS A MAN AND A WOMAN TOGETHER, AND THEN CONTINUES TO KEEP THE RESULTING FLAME BRIGHT AND ALIVE FOR THE REMAINDER OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP...
I AM MY MATES LOVER AND HUSBAND. I ENTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH AN OPEN MIND AND OPEN HEART. I PRAY I AM SENSITIVE TO MY MATES DESIRES. I WILL NOT ENTER A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT A HIGH LEVEL OF ROMANCE AND INTIMACY. MY PARAMETERS FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE ARE DRIVEN BY CODE OF CONDUCT. IN THAT MY CODE PROVIDES THAT IT IS MORE PLEASURABLE TO GIVE THAN TO RECEIVE, I DERIVE PERSONAL PLEASURE ONLY AFTER I HAVE PROVIDED MY MATE THE LEVEL OF SEXUAL PLEASURE SHE DESIRES..I HOPE THIS WILL HELP US IN GETTING TO KNOW MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER OR WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THAT.I am so glad to be talking to you,you are the first normal person to contact me, and you are the only one I care to even talk to. You sound like the type of man that I could fall in love with and spend the rest of my life with. like you, I love a sense of humor..that and communication are a MUST in as relationship with me...I don't even know where to start....There is so much I want to tell you, but at the same time, I do not want to scare you off either, I want more than anything to get to know you better, and try and build a life with you. i understand that you may be gone a lot, but to me that only helps strengthen a relationship. i am a faithful man though, if I am involved with you it is only u, I do look around anyway,...even if you and I decided right this minute that we were in a "relationship" I would be faithful and committed to you and only you, so if you decide that that is what you want, just say so, and I will be all yours. I am a very caring man. but please just know it in mind that we have to trust each other cos i have trust u with all my heart...LOL....I have brown hair and beautiful brown eyes....i am sorry that I have to cut this short, but I have to get Bed and be ready for the plan before it starts to rain....Please know that you are in my mind and thoughts though..I WILL WAIT TO READ FROM YOU SOON..
BEST if you don't mind you add me on my email address...kbee_55@yahoo.com
 
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