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dating online, using email and chat

Nervous? First meetings can give you cause for anxiety. Whether a blind date or a meeting in a grocery store at least you can see how the person acts and feeks. Now take away the opportunities to adjust on the fly and to let the other see you.

It is a tough way to begin.

Email and chat do not carry the intonation and nuance we hear when we listen to a voice.

Adding a web camera helps. You can see facial expressions and body language. Is that a "face you can love?" Only full video or a real meeting can tell you.

1st contact and early contact by email is odd. You press send. Who knows how and when the other will react? You have no opportunity to add context. What you choose to say should intrigue the other, and should provide information matched to what the person has said. If you were asked a question, respond clearly to it.

Chat is different. Ideally it allows conversation, a rapid exchange. Knowing how to converse and what subjects to choose is an art. Go deep in your interaction about subjects that interest both of you. Consider subjects like the nature of love, how two can get along well, what you like about your work with recent experiences, or some fun you had with one of your children.
 
Do you want me?  Ah, that question gets posed way to early.  Show how you think, how you communicate, what you value.

Can two people get to know each other online? Yes, to a degree.  Adding online phone with both people on web cams makes communication effective. If the objective is whether to meet locally for 5 minutes for tea, then one need not be as thorough in evaluating online. If the issue is whether to travel a far distance to consider relocating, the stakes are far higher.

Finding a mate locally makes more sense to me. Starting that process online is cool.

Bruce
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artoshea
artoshea 1448 days agocomment permalink
 
Where do they have a chat here? I like what you're saying. I just joined today and sent emails to people that were last here a year or two ago. Hope someone responds.
 
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sexy_woman
sexy_woman 1440 days agocomment permalink
 
okhi my new fiend pls what is your name pls iwant to know u
 
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fely_0016
fely_0016 1187 days agocomment permalink
 
hi im lovely girl,...i want some friend and,....
 
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fely_0016
fely_0016 1187 days agocomment permalink
 
hi im lovely girl,...i want some friend and,....
 
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fely_0016
fely_0016 1187 days agocomment permalink
 
hi im lovely girl,...i want some friend and,....
 
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lovesheikh
lovesheikh 1176 days agocomment permalink
 
looking for love...
 
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gentle617
gentle617 1141 days agocomment permalink
 
Most all of us are looking for love. My criteria:

a woman who is very smart, honest, spiritual, with decent self control.

Bruce
 
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jessy_love
jessy_love 1026 days agocomment permalink
 
who ever the right guy is come but let me tell you am not in for scammers because am not that rich that you can scam
 
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lover20
lover20 814 days agocomment permalink
 
Greetings to you,
How are you doing l hope fine, is my pleasure to meeting you online dating l will like to be a friend with you and l hope you will like to see my pictures, l will send you a pic of mine soon if l got your reply mail in my mailbox, it private and l will attach my pic to you on my next mail to you, here is my email ld you can contact me here mamaliliego@yahoo.com
hoping to read from you , tell me about you in email.
alots of love contact me directly with my email address
 
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queenta 797 days agocomment permalink
 
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