So, I noticed many people rushing from profile to profile and typing many emails to me and to others in desperate attempts to find love or some type of union. I myself have done the same. What I realized was that many people including myself became very discouraged and even resentful from this site and others. I asked myself why it was so hard to find what I wanted online and why can't others get what they wish for either, then it hit me recently when I was rushing around town helping a friend do some work. We had been running around not able to get anything done that we had planned and my friend was flustered by it all. We had two days to get her house cleaned and it was not happening that first day and instead of being flustered with it I just relaxed and told myself that it would happen in Gods time.

The next day I was at the my friends house cleaning up and a bunch of missionary people showed up to help because they heard somehow that my friend was in desperate need. This was the time that God had chosen to give my friend assistance apparently. It seemed that the running around on the first day was all proven pointless.

The moral of my story is that as much as you want and plan on having your ambitions achieved in your own time the truth is that you will achieve them not on your own time but within Gods time.

So, relax a bit and make some friends here instead of rushing to seek your ideal love. It will happen for you all in the time that God gives you.

Peace and Love to all of you, may your searching reveal something grand.

P.S. When I speak of God  I speak of him as a higher power and some people may have other higher powers that direct them. I do not wish to offend any other beliefs or practices in my use of his name.