Really, we look around and the site is filled to the gills with scammers... This isn't a joke, it's real.  How many women are going to e-mail me in one hour, never having talked to me before, professing undieing love? 

What is really sad, is this site is built on the same exact software package that I base many sites I build for people on and it takes about 15 minutes of coding to do away with this crap, eliminating it forever.

1.  We know most of the phrases/terms/words that scammers utilize and programs exist that fit directly into this software to eliminate it and remove it from the e-mail system BEFORE it gets to the members.  But this site refuses to utilize that software.

2.  This software has the ability with 2 lines of code added to it to effectively track and eliminate members who have multiple accounts from the same IP and also recognize when an account is logging in from multiple IP's in a very short time frame (proxy IP's) yet they have refused to utilize it.

3.  Filtering software also exists to eliminate any profiles/blogs/forum posts and so on that are spam/scam type entries. 

So, Admin, why not spend an hour tops and just clean this thing up effectively?