So I was talking to this girl recently and last night she told me that she didnt want to talk to me anymore which really surprised me because she seemed to like me up to that point. I asked her why she didnt want to talk to me and her response was "you are just too nice". WTF is up with that excuse? Its not like I can argue and say "I can be mean, I can be very mean" so why do women use that as an excuse? Do you want someone to be mean to you? Do you not want someone who is a "nice" guy? Frankly I think women should just grow some nuts and stop makeing excuses and just say what they mean because I can never be anything but a nice guy. Its just who I am and I refuse to belive that women want someone who is going to be anything but nice to them. Its sad how kindness is taken for weakness in this day and age. Whats even sadder is the realization that there are so many a** holes out there that they have become the standard for women. How pathetic. I dont really blame women for accepting a**holism for whats acceptable treatment. Its the fault of all them men in the world who cant see past their own wants and desires to how their behavior will affect someone else. It makes me ashamed to have them as part of the human race. It makes me sad that they are whats accepted as the norm.