When a very attractive woman meets a man, she might expect him to immediately chase her, want her. I suppose.
Online contact is so different. When text streams into Chat software it is very lifeless.
Share your pictures early, to generate interest. Buy a web camera. Have it available IF and When you want to use it. Write some Blog entries here at 4ppl. Help us to know about you, about your family, about your Ambitions.
In professional Sales Training I learned that 5 face to face contacts are almost always needed for anyone to Buy Anything Significant. Be patient. Be gradual. Do not expect a person to love you until after those 5 face to face meetings.
Your pretty face is only a place to start. Let those you meet see your smiling face live with a web camera. I like the cameras from Logitech. You can use it at a cafe, probably. Carry one in your purse. :-)
May you seek with honesty and patience and find your own true love,