GEORGE WASHINGTON, letter to Burwell Bassett, May 23, 1785

Like him the most of the human being are thinking same. We thought that marriage is such experiences by without which we can’t be imagine the state of mental and physical as well as the happiness of soul. In this institution the social union or the legal contract are to be happen between two people to create relationship.

One person when getting to decided to marry then he or she will look for a perfect life partner who does care for him or her in every aspects thus if this requirement can be fulfilled thus the great understanding can be created between those people after the marriage of them.

To many people marriage is such a feeling of sentimental issue that can made a different state of mental settlement with your partner and can be make your life with full of love and affections. According to Herbart Spencer if men were wise they would see that the affection that God has implanted in us is amply sufficient, when not weakened by artificial aid, to ensure permanence of union; and if they would have more faith in this all would go well. To tie together by human law what God has tied together by passion, is about as wise as it would be to chain the moon to the earth lest the natural attraction existing between them should not be sufficient to prevent them flying asunder.

We can found that through the procedures of ceremony of marriages when two men are knotted together in a same life, then they will go for the sharing their life, feelings and soul also. Before getting the introduction with each other every would be couple imagines about their partner’s image as per their choices of imagination and wants to have that in their real life. But when it does not matches with the real fact the basic willing power to understanding is to be needed for the betterment of that newly made relation.

The availability of a support system is a great contributor to stable marriages. In spite of great social disturbance in social norms during the past century, I find the institution of marriage still very strong. The present relationship existing between husband and wife, where one claims a command over the actions of the other, is nothing more than a remnant of the old leaven of slavery.

Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always continue to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of annoyance; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life. Thus love and marriage are the both compatible each other. It does not matter it happen before the marriage or after the marriage.