Hey everyone I just want to try my hand at this. and mention a few things I`ve learned here at 4ppl.  One of course is many foreners who discise themselves as Americans use, "am" at the begining of sentinces and leave off the "I" so if your wondering about my greating, thats what it means. I actually read your profiles and the letters that are  sent to me. I enjoy them. I think it`s my favorite part of 4ppl. and I like to change my greating at random depending on my mood or some repetative action that people keep doing. I`ve also learned that not many men or people in general actually read my profile.  or maybe they just cant read english becouse I stated I would only return letters of coucasion men. and have had lots of letters from people of color. Some seem to not know I am a woman. Sometimes I get the feeling that the person who has written me would prefer to cut me up and eat me for dinner rather than have a romantic relationship with me. and the pictures they post seem to reinforce my feelings. but thats just my opinion. and heres a little more about my view.  I figure if I want to have a romantic relationship with someone I should know a little about them to see if we would be compatable. in other words, like intrestes, simular life styles, if we can comuncate together. I believe if we dont speak the same language. we cant. it`s hard enough to talk to your partner when you do speak the same language. comunication lines seem to get crossed and before you know it you`ve said something hurtfull you did not mean to. or it just came out the wrong way. of course I dident learn that here.  and before I chat with someone instantly I like to read there profile. to see if there is anything we have in comon or where the person is from or how far away they are. sometimes there`s nothing on a profile allmost no info. what am I supposed to do with that. the only thing I can, nothing. I dont answer those . and yes I know falling in love is all about taking a chance. but , even when you buy a lotto ticket you can read about your odds of winning.  the few times I have returned letters I wound up telling people all about myself and got verry little info back.  sometimes I get on hear drunker than coutter brown. and just email random people. cant even remember what I said the next day.    Anyway it serves to pass the time when i am bored.  Well I guess thats enough of my jabboring for now.  thanks for reading.   LooktotheMt