http://www.supersingles.ning.com/ is a free dating social networking site, it is new and totally free to join and use, it hopefully will be as good as 4ppl, but, each member will be checked by a human and if they flag up suspicions of being a scammer they will not be allowed to be a member & have their profiles deleted. Why not join up and give it a try. It has blogs, groups, you can add videos and chat in the chat room as well.