I've read all these blogs about scammers and poor poor mislead men.

First I'd like to say, Scamming is wrong. There's no way around that and we all know it.

But really, is there any difference between getting scammed by some chic on the net, or waking up the next morning with all your cash gone and that hot guy from the bar is long gone? We all think with our hormones sometimes, but we really can't blame our lack of common sense on anyone but ourselves.

If you feel betrayed and taken advantage of, well, you should. So learn from it, and move on. Starting some inane crusade is not going to even make a dent in her profits. Lets face a few realities here, most men think with their penis, it's how they're hard wired, and instead of understanding that, most women become shrewish and vindictive. It is the society we have built. Oh yes, in the end this is all our faults.

We have become children of instant gratification. We don't want to take the time to foster romance. We want to believe that this gorgeous person is head over heels in love with us after three messages on the internet, because it feeds our ego, because it is instant, and what we want. We don't have to kill the cow to get a hamburger anymore, and we don't have to grow the lettuce for salads. They come 60 seconds or less over the Mcdonalds window.

So in all fairness, lets keep a couple valuable truths in mind, and leave off with all this whining.

1. Love is grown, fostered, coddled. It does not ignite magically over a computer screen

2. Women that are worth your time, have self respect and morals, and ethics. They don't beg for money over the net, or send you naked pictures.

3. we have no control over anyone, but ourselves, and thus no one is accountable for our actions, but ourselves.

I'm romantic enough that I hope all of you find that perfect someone for you, or at least have fun along the way. But take care of yourself along the way.