In interpersonal, see to help save the opportunity to immediately went up, like a hungry squirrel pounced on the earth last grain of pine seeds. Because human is wealth, interpersonal relationship and one of the most fundamental purpose is "customs, popular with people.

Like the love of money ZuoYouFengYuan cordiality, can like. Asking for help is passive, but if others owe your debt and ask for others act naturally very easily, and sometimes don't even speak up to. Behave so scenery, mostly and good at making customs, generosity relevant. Mercy art is the most basic human relations, the strategies and methods for the development and utilization of the safest interpersonal relationship resources efforts kung fu.

Don't speak too cover keep Lou, choose too bright, lest make the other side feel to lose face, on the face light; Give others have helped is busy, the more don't go around self-publicity. Mercy shall not a overmuch, lest caused to the other party by debt burden, even because of a disgrace, and you off. To be a leader should cultivate subordinate feelings for you rely on, let them willingly for their effectiveness. Give a person benefits but also pay attention to the choice to like. As wolves hello don't full, you help his busy, still perhaps can get kicked in the teeth.

Give customs, LiuHouLu. My life days more peaceful, but also had a distress. Among them whether others' word, caring behavior, just make me over the rough spots. I am a others to do his settles all his life he remember, years later I will recompense.

As the saying goes: "at home depend parents, go-off on friends", and one more many friends road. To love oneself, already must first lover. Men when moment entities generosity and kindly idea, can take many store some of human rights. This is like a human prevent premature, must develop the habit of "savings", it might even make you get the benefit posterity, is the so-called "portion" of the past. I wouldn't think so far away, so utility.

How to "have to customs, and no sure formula for success.

For a poor become difficult, a gold COINS help may make him holding this commemorative COINS bear the extreme hunger and poor, maybe do transgressions, rushes out with his career of the world.

For a bigotry prodigal, once the heart with help will make him establish human dignity and confident, perhaps on a cliff after Mercedes in the hope that the horses before the field, and to become a warrior.

Even in peaceful day, on an honorable move sent to a wisp of credible eyes, this may be justice eyes virtually strong power. A novel insights to agree with a burst of applause, the applause inadvertently may be the great support of innovation ideas.

Is the very optional to a stranger, could also be a help to the stranger suddenly found that kind of rare and affection of valuable. Maybe he saw someone was, he'll soon difficulty from his was one to help draw courage and memories of kindness.

Actually, the person is in the journey, already needs the help of others, and the need to help others. In this sense, gang is JiShan.

Perhaps no more than help this kindness can reflect a person's broad mind and generous tolerance. Don't look for a frustrated man said a warm heart of words, for a will fall to help a person gently, of a hopeless gives a sincere trust. Maybe his lost nothing, but to one person in need of help, perhaps is disillusioned, is the support, is relieved. Instead, refused to help people, always too personally the gain and loss, such fine threads continuously in the eyes of the person unavoidable flashing numb, heart will look on some dark from time to time the sediment. The problems of others, he can be as proud of capital, others failed, he can turn the comfort of your own joke; Others outstretched hand of help, he will be coldly push away; Others groaned in pain, but he remained unmoved. As for the road is rough, comes to help, is not facing perhaps he also will have every reason. Selfish, make this kind of person of feeble sympathy to even stingy with the slightest give all take out.

Perhaps this person do not give somebody help's second, terrible is he not only may degenerate into a cruel man, but also to be reduced to a considerable people. Because his heart besides can allow the next poor themselves, the whole world is no attention and concern, actually, he also in all the possible change his step by step road, also in refused all possible help.

Namely, giving care how much, but in the number of whether others needs. Depth, and joash hatred doesn't care about is whether I hurt the heart of another.

Give a person benefits don't make public. Life often such, hydrosphere help others of favour, think one person, then a superiority, hearts on high, untouchable. This attitude is very dangerous, often cause negative consequences, namely: helped someone else's busy, but did not increase their income of human account, because this kind of attitude, put this proud offset a bill.

People are AiMianZi, you give him face is to give him a gift. One day you ask him to act, his natural given to face ", "even though he felt embarrassed or feel not very will. This is all the essential operation in human account.

People always try to do the best to keep face, for the sake of face problem, can make sense of things outside. There is a song lyrics is very popular, "if some memory make you pain, why not easily to forget it." But talk easy! In the know how people to pay attention to face after, must also avoid public occasions in the your opponent embarrassed, must hourly remind yourself don't make any facial things detrimental to others.

Always remember a kind of behavior inevitably lead to the opposite reaction behavior. As long as you have heart, as long as you give people face everywhere note, you will have a big face.

So, help should note don't make the other side feel accept your help is a kind of burden; To do, i.e. from natural ran in