Like life, a strange state of mind, things look very different perspective. To be able to look out of their own, with an optimistic, open-minded, considerate attitude of contemplation themselves, know themselves; not demanding their own, more importantly, beyond themselves, to break their own, because the good life there is hope. Make you angry people have to go far away, and you get angry for him, so why bother? Philosopher Kant said: 〖angry with someone else's mistake to punish their〗. Look out of yourself, you may wish to change their point of sense is, you will realize that life's bitter, tired, or happy, comfortable, depending on the person's state of mind, involves people's attitude to life, to feel things. Come out to see themselves from another angle, you will calm peace with life, never take someone else's mistake to punish himself. When the pain to hit, when you may wish to come out to see themselves from another angle, this brave Unfortunate ground of life, and then sad Jitu to find the causes of pain, lessons learned and ways to overcome the pain, so full of soul thorns and to brave the spiritual choices, to find a mature life.
Jump to another point of view themselves, their will to live to get pleasure in "every day is a good day", the soul would Huo Liang, did not trouble trouble.
Words, there was the mother gave birth to two daughters, the eldest daughter married a businessman selling umbrellas, two daughters work in the dye, which makes the mother every sorrow. Fine, and she worried that her daughter's umbrella sell ; overcast, and she sad two daughters dye in the clothes to dry quit. She has such a sunny cloudy sorrow sorrow also, before long the white head. One day, a distant family and friends look at her, surprised her aging, regardless of their reason, feel funny, that friends and relatives said: "cloudy umbrella sell your daughter, you are happy is, sunny second daughter dye your business is good This is also happy so happy you do every day, every day is a good day, why do not you pick pleased to pick up sorrow designed it? "old mother flip side:" made a valid point! "Since then, her mouth smiling normally open, happy every day.
Person's life, always inevitably bumps, encountered unpleasant and angry, or experiencing natural disasters and sorrow, and so on. Whenever this time, we are going to do with it?
I remember a philosopher once said: 〖our pain is not caused by the problem itself, but our views on these issues arising. 〗 Very philosophical words, it will lead us to liberation. Here, I think another story:
Words, the summer evening, a beautiful young woman run away himself, by river boat is a white beard Shaogong rescued. Shaogong asked: "You in gently, why commit suicide?" "I got married only two years, the husband abandoned me, and then the child has died. I live, what you say fun?" Shaogong heard there are pondered. Said: "Two years ago, how do you live for?" The young woman said: "I was free, carefree ah ..." "That's when you have a husband and children?" "No" "But you the fate of the ship was sent back to go two years ago and now you and a free carefree Please go ashore ... "
Carter, made the young woman seems like a dream, she rubbed his eyes, thought, will go offshore. Since then, she did not commit suicide again. Young woman change her mind. Because of her own from another perspective, to see a raw dawn. Feel free efforts. In many cases, we are all suffering and troubles in his past life has been relying on "experience" to make the wrong judgments, then, we might come out to see themselves from another angle, you will not fail for the battlefield, shopping malls missed, unlucky in love and deserting; not as Ming Lijia body, praised everywhere and carried away. Another perspective on their own, is a breakthrough, a relief, a kind of transcendence, a high level of indifferent quiet, fun to gain free. Switch to a perspective of the world, the world's infinite clemency; for a position to be personnel, security personnel are all light. Wish you every day is a good day!
When the ideals of life and the pursuit can not be achieved, may wish to look at life from another angle. Another angle, there will be another philosophy, another concept of doing things.