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About me

About me: I grew up out east, and have spent allot of time moving with work. I love the city, but enjoy the quiet of the country. I'm an energetic, outgoing person. I enjoy being active. I like to travel though there never seems to be enough time, exercise, biking when it's warmer, hiking but not camping, gardening, cooking watching colts football, wine, art and doing the unexpected. I can rebuild a kitchen and then go out for dinner and a play. I believe that a good relationship has balance, understanding, communication, support and passion. I love the smell of the ocean, and walking on the beach, but I can't sit there all day and sun myself....You can usually find me working, working out or playing with my kids. I rarely slow down or sit still. Good friends and a good bottle of wine make for a good evening. The right person and a good bottle of wine make for a great evening. I've been told I'm spontaneous and fun. I'm one of those people that loves what he does and does what he loves. I have three great kids, and two dogs. I try and find the positive side of every situation. I'm old enough to know that life is full of compromises, you just have to pick the ones you can live with, and let the rest work themselves out. And I'm young enough to enjoy it.

About you

How does one try to explain things about themselves with out sounding conceited. Some say that I am to open and should keep some things to myself, but if someone told me to do that, then I would be like them or someone else. That would be the last thing I ever want. To be like someone else. I am a individual that pretty much does what he wants to do, and a good reason for that, is I have missed way to much in life to let anything slip away or be missed again. I am far from a politically correct person. I see things the way that they are! If it looks like a rat, smells like a rat, fucking odds are it is a rat! I am stubborn and analyze absolutely everything. I’m very educated in life, but suck in reality. My worst trait is the bluntness I have decided to add into my personality. I have been tired of beating around the bush to try and get answers or try to find out the truth. So I figured being blunt and direct is the only way. Sorry if you don’t like it, but it does make for either long great stimulating conversations that are real and true, or it ends bullshit right there on the spot! I have one child that come before anything or anybody and that’s the way it should be. When my child is taken care of and the responsibilities of life are taken care of, then the rest of the world is my playground. I do things that are great for me I am my own person. Do not try to change me and accept me and my world as it is! I can’t change, I have tried, just doesn’t work. Please don’t think that I am a mean person, I am so far from being that. I am kind, considerate and full of energy. I am usually the life of the party and the clown will always be there. As far as the rest of me you can figure out through out my profile, I have been very descriptive and detailed. And yes I am a freak!!!! Peace to you all, whoever you may be